1)everybody has their own set of problems....some pple are willing to share to others...some no....some probs can be shared...some no....some pple hide behind a image or front that they build for themselves and when they talk to others, they sieve out things that they think cant be shared no matter how much they are suffering inside......

2)with friends, there will be good times and there will be bad times ...but time will tell who your real friends are...

3)children are a lifetime commitment, once you start, you cant stop.